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guru21

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My spouse and I were married one month and five days ago.  Here are the horoscope details:  mine - March 21, 1972, 9:05 a.m., 30.44N 76.53E; his - June 19, 1972, 00:59 a.m., 18.54N 72.49E.  His highly charged temper and overall jealousy of me and family COMBINED with his family's indecent behavior with me have led to the near destruction of our relationship.  He and I have spent 4 nights together in the same home since the marriage took place.  Due to a birth defect, he is not capable of performing as a man (sexually speaking) so he and I have not had intercourse.  Three weeks ago he came to my home, packed up his suitcase and left.  Since then I have not heard from him.  Please offer some guidance as all signs point to me having made the biggest mistake of my life -- by marrying someone so changeable and bitter as him (how can I trust him in the future?).  Thank you.  P.S.:  Prior to deciding on the marriage date, he was not like this -- or maybe I was blinded by his spiritual lectures and I couldn't see what he was really doing. 

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Hi

You dont need to match a horoscope to see that this is a doomed marriage. You have been decieved into marrying an impotent man. Had you chosen to marry one after knowing the defect it was altogather different.

 

The boy's family has cheated you. Please run for your life ( away from them). Its just a month old marriage and no serious harm has come to you. File for a annulment ( which is different from divorce). Annulment happens when the marriage has not been consumatted and you are still as good as unmarried.

 

Are you hoping for love out of people who have cheated you or treated you so poorly ? Not love or God can change the situation.

 

I went through your horoscope and I see that you will find a good guy within seven months after you leave him.

 

good luck

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I appreciate you looking in to my horoscope.  I am on the brink of doing just that - filing for an annulment.  The emotions he and his family have destroyed for me -- toward them -- are simply something I can never create again.  I am a giving, kind, loving and caring woman.  I just don't think he is worthy of my love and of my devotion.

 

So you do see some light at the end of this dark road for me (i.e., me finding someone sometime next year)?  That will be a welcome relief.  I am tired of going through broken relationships -- I know it is karma and I have to endure it.  I just ask the Almighty to give me strength and to guide me on to the right path.

 

Thank you again.

 

- Guru21

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Guru21 Hi,

 

1.   While going through your chart, I did analysis of seventh house also.  The lord of seventh house is in first house(Mars). It is co-located with saturn and it is seen by Rahu(Being in fifth position from Rahu). Saturn is also in seventh position from seventh house. It indicates that seventh house and lord of seventh house is affected by Saturn and Rahu. Both of these are sepratist planets and their influence on lord of seventh house has caused the seperation.

 

2.   The first reletionship didn't materialise as the lord of seventh house Mars is not in good position as stated in para 1, the seventh lord is also an indicater of relationship with first life partner(Husband)/First marriage. However, the chances or Yogas of second marriage is  formed by the  twelth house and Jupiter is the planet which forms the yoga of second marriage/relationship. In your chart the lord of eight house Jupiter is in its own house, this is forming an auspicious yoga, it is not only nullyfying the ill effects of eight house but also seeing twelth house as it is located at fifth position from eighth house. This forms yoga of second marriage. It is usually observed in the Kundlis of people who have gone into second marriage due to any of the reasons, if Jupiter is in exaltation and if it forms any combinational relationship with twelth house, it forms good indication of good and lasting relationship. However, the position of other planet and their effect on each other has also to be taken into consideration. I definately see good chances of marriage/relationship in your chart. 


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Bob,

 

Thank you for doing a thorough study on my chart.  I appreciate your honest and learned interpretation.  I have a lot of love, care, compassion and affection to give and it is sad how this first marriage has turned out.  I am hoping I will be able to extricate myself out of this difficult circumstance and then move on with my life.

 

Thank you again.

 

- Guru21

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Bob,

 

One question:  I thought my Venus is in House 12 and not in House I.  Or, have I misunderstood what you have written?

 

- Guru21

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Guru21,

1. You are absolutely correct your lagna, lord of first house, Venus is in twelth house. The position of Venus has been considered in making  interpretations. Your kundli contains lots of good yogas also as a result you will have smooth life with happy relatioship. Howsoever, if you want more clarification on the same subject , you are welcome to ask. I will make an attemt to clarify the same in simple terms. I wish to know,do you have any brother. How is your relationship with your brother? As your kundli indicates certain clue on this regard.  


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Bob,

 

Thank you for the prompt reply.

 

I would like to know a bit more about the possibility of a second marriage -- timing especially as I am definitely interested in settling down.  First of course is getting out of this miserable first marriage situation that I find myself in.  Since he does not even have a marriage license, legally speaking, I am not married to him.  But, I need to find a way to remove myself from this horrible and abusive situation.

 

I actually have two brothers.  What are you able to tell in their regard?  I am curious to know.

 

Thanks again.

 

- Guru21

 

bob

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Guru21,

1. Since, I was analysing your birth chart for yogas formed by three planets that is occupying your first house. One of the yogas formed due to prsence of Moon and Saturn together indicates that by and large your relationship with your brothers would not be so smooth. There will be difference of opinion with your brothers on number of issues off and on. I didn't convey this to you as I wanted to confirm, do you have brother or not?Is it true?


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Bob,

 

Yes, you are absolutely right.  The relationship with my two brothers is exactly the way you have described it - we don't see eye to eye on most things. 

 

Feel free to divulge any other information you see pertinent to my chart, especially in relation to a second marriage and career.

 

Thank you.

 

- Guru21

bob

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Guru21,

1. Thanks for confirmation. Infact I enjoy reading charts and carrying out the interpretation. Sometimes while carrying out the detail analysis of certain aspects I usually come across some negative yogas too, but I hesitate to divulge it as I am not sure, how the person at another end will take it. I got little busy in routine conferences and couldn't indulge in one of my favorites hobboy(Astrology) for last two days. I will definately answer your quaries, let me analyse your chart and related houses. 


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Bob,

 

Thank you.  I appreciate you taking the time in interpreting my chart.  I look forward to hearing more from you.

 

- Guru21

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Guru21,

Second Marriage 

1. It is important to note that your kundli is very interesting and it forms a lot of yogas. Every time I go through your chart I come across some or other interesting yogas that is rarely seen in comman Kundlies. However, presently I will restrict myself to yogas that are supporting second marriage. As far as my reading and analysis goes, you have all the bright chances for happy and successful relationship. I have come to this conclusion because of the reasons listed as under:-

    (a)    The yoga of second marriage is formed by the twelth house and Jupiter. Since Jupiter is in its own house and it is at an angle with 12th house(Jupiter fifth drishti on 12th house).

     (b)    The yoga karak planet for the marriage is also present in 12th house and it is at an angle with Jupiter(Jupiters fifth drishti on 12th house).    

2.  The yoga of your marriage started with effect from 19 Apr 1996 and continues till 14 Apr 2012 under Jupiter(Vishotri).However during Jupiter-Venus(Mahadasa) with effect  from 26 feb 04 to 26 Oct 06 a strong yoga emerged and you landed up in tieng nuptial knot, the relationship didn,t work due to the reasons I convayed you earlier.

3.   Since the Yoga for second marriage is very much there in your chart . In the forthcoming period Jupiter-Moon(Mahadasa) wef 14/08/ 07 t0 14/01/09 and Jupiter-Mars(Mahadasa) wef 14/01/09 to 20/11/09 forms good yogas respectively because these planets are influencing the seventh house and the karak planets. However the in between period which I have not highlighted till 14 Apr 2012 is also conducive and chances can not be ruled out. The periods I have mentined and highlighted is definately important and conducive for relationship. 


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Bob,

 

Thank you sir for once again analyzing my chart and this time keeping the chances of a second marriage as the main thrust of the analysis.

 

Here is a rather odd question:  if I wanted to remarry the individual I am married to now, that would technically be considered a second marriage, correct?  Also, if I went ahead with that, then is it true the relationship still wouldn't work as his horoscope is laden with doshas?  His birth details are June 19, 1972, 00:59 a.m., Bombay.

 

Please take a look at your convenience and let me know what you think.

 

Thank you again kindly.

 

- Guru21

 

sudhir

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Hello

I thought second marriage is shown by 9th house.

 

regards

 

bob

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Sudhir,

 

1.  I would like to make it clear that 9th house is also know as house of relegion. When it comes to body parts such as stomach and back and whenever one has to consider relationship like brother, brother in law etc one has to refer 9th house as these things have got bearing with 9th house. However,if the karak of second marriage Jupiter is in 9th house( Sarbotam Subh) and well placed in its own house or friends house and have drishti on the planet that is governing the 12th house i.e house that is considered for second spouse than it is a clear indication that if there is a problem in first marriage than native can go for second marriage.

 

With warm wishes

 


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Hi,

I hesitate a bit while analyzing a chart for strained relationship as I believe firmly that faith is the panacea for all problems. Relationship based on strong values of faith may suffer lots of up and down but it never breaks. As I consider marriage not a union of two individuals but it is a union of two souls. Howsoever, I did analyze both the charts and my astrological deductions are as under:-

 

Your spouse is manglik where as you are non-manglik. His mars is in 8th house and the karak planet of 7th house (house of relationship), venus is in 8th house with krur mangal. It is mitigating the somya aspect of venus. This leads to egoistic attitude and at times your spouse would be forcing his way through in all the matters. Your attitude seems to be very sober and freak. You have a moon in seventh house (lord of 7th house in its own house). It is a good indication however it is affected by ketu but nothing to worry. Your Jupiter, the karak planet of second marriage is in its own house in 12th house. It forms yoga of traveling abroad and other places .It also indicates that you will not settle in your native place. you may settle somewhere away from your native place. If I say there would be contrast in nature of both of you it will not be a contradiction. There is a parivartan yoga between lagnesh(Saturn) and venus(lord of 5th and 10th house). As Saturn is also having its 3rd drishti on 7th house that’s why your marriage is surviving but you will face lots of up and down in relationship. The personality and nature of both of you appear to be incompatible howsoever because of your sober nature this relationship appears to be surviving. I see chances of somebody entering in your life, the person may be a qualified person or may be someone you are familiar with as Saturn is having its dristi on 7th house and there is a parivartan yoga between karak planet and Saturn.  But I advise you to hold on and strengthen your relationship with your spouse. I think faith is the missing link in your relationship. Rejuvenate your life with faith things will get back on track soon. Howsoever if something very particular in this relationship that is bothering you then it’s a different question all together.

 

Remember, “There is no failure in relationship until you quit and do not try again. Therefore you must hold your ideals thousand times in the midst of failure and make one more attempt to revive the faith. 

 

 


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jugnu123

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Hi

All this does make a very informatinive and interesting reading.

CAn u please analyse my chart for marital status and progeny. Iam extremely upset and worried on these two counts.

My details

DOB 13-12-1970
Tob 3:00 am
Amritsar Punjab India

My husbands details

Dob 16-05-1971
Tob 3:30 pm
Ambala CAntt HAryana India

Any help is very much appreciated

jugnu123
bob

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if you go through your chart you will observe that you are manglik and your spouse is non manglik that may give rise to little differences but relationship will survive with understanding and faith. And if one compares both the charts for compatibility under bhukut interpretation it indicates that the progeny may take some time and the resons may be own choice or conditional. There is a need to spend more time with each other. In your chart lord of 5th house is debilitated and positined in 7th house however I don't consider it a major problem .Little impediments I can see in 5th house of both of you due to position of rahu in 5th house but I don't consider it a major impediment and position of mars and moon in your spouse chart in 5th house beckons the hope.

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